Living With a Man

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We all know about the stress in our own lives, but how often do we sit down and consider the stress in our man’s life? There is the father pressure, the husband pressure, the work pressure, the income pressure, how will he provide? How will he be an active part in his family life? How does he balance all of this to keep himself healthy, get enough sleep, and by golly, be able to stay in a good mood?
So often we are stressed about what we need, and what the family needs. My husband often calls it nagging. Believe me, I’ve really grown to hate that word. But does our nagging only hinder our lives and the stress in our man’s life?
When we were dating it took a little while to get engaged  because of the pressure men have even before they are married that they are going to have to give the women the world. I hate when I see daddy’s little girl expecting her fiance to give her everything daddy has in the past. So many people don’t realize that it took daddy 30+ years to get where he is, and young men are just starting out.
So what I guess I’m saying is this: when we are in the middle of our ever so popular “nagging” today, maybe pause a moment and put yourself in your husband or man’s shoes. What else is going on? I think it will help improve the day and our relationships.